NBA Star Shares his Story about Success and Stuttering

Michael Kidd-Gilchrist and Joe Donaher smile for the camera with students, staff and faculty in front of 番茄社区app's Campus Center on Oct. 15, before speaking on stuttering awareness and creating actionable change in the stuttering community.

Galloway, N.J. - While Michael Kidd-Gilchrist has been making hoops in the NBA since 2012, he has been jumping through them for longer after developing a stutter as a young child.

Kidd-Gilchrist recently teamed up with Joe Donaher, speech language pathologist and academic and research program coordinator at Children鈥檚 Hospital of Philadelphia, to raise awareness and create change in the stuttering community through the Change and Impact Initiative, the center of a panel discussion at Stockton on Oct. 15.

Donaher and Kidd-Gilchrist spoke candidly about what it means to be a person who stutters, what it means to be a speech language pathologist (SLP) working with people who stutter and the importance of the relationship between the two.

"I鈥檓 here to fight for the next person who stutters - older, younger, kid or not,鈥 said Kidd-Gilchrist. 鈥淚t鈥檚 not about my story, per se, but about empowering the next person who stutters and the SLP.鈥Michael Kidd-Gilchrist and Joe Donaher sit on stage before their panel discussion on stuttering awareness and the Change and Impact Initiative.

鈥淲hen Michael talks, people want to listen to him,鈥 Donaher said, a statement that could be daunting for someone who stutters. However, Kidd-Gilchrist, slowly and deliberately, hones this power. 鈥淚t鈥檚 all about the impact that we can make on lives,鈥 he said. 鈥淚 personally don鈥檛 like to think that I have a voice, but I do. If this is the way I use my voice to help people, then I鈥檓 going to do it.鈥

Citing Marilyn Monroe and President Joe Biden, both Donaher and Kidd-Gilchrist pointed out stuttering and success are not mutually exclusive. 鈥淭eens who stutter doubt themselves and think everyone who hears them stutter thinks negatively of them, so they hide,鈥 Donaher said as he reflected on the impact Kidd-Gilchrist, a South Jersey native, would have on the teens he worked with as a SLP after making headlines for being drafted second overall to the Charlotte Bobcats in 2012. 鈥淔or them to see someone who didn鈥檛 let stuttering stop him, who didn鈥檛 let stuttering define him. Someone who was successful not because he stopped stuttering, not because he did stutter. He was successful and he stuttered.鈥

鈥淎in鈥檛 nobody fluent,鈥 said Kidd-Gilchrist as he explained that everyone pauses to think when speaking or says 鈥渦m鈥 at times, something his SLP in college helped him recognize. 鈥淚 think about that at times when I start stuttering.鈥

In fact, it was this therapist who helped Kidd-Gilchrist accept himself fully and better understand his stutter. 鈥淚 could tell that she cared,鈥 he said, which changed everything for him after experiencing situations where that was not the case. 鈥淭hat made me realize there was a light there. There were days when I didn鈥檛 want to talk. It was the way she was open, not always trying to fix me as a person. I don鈥檛 have to change.鈥Michael Kidd-Gilchrist and Joe Donaher pose with staff and faculty from 番茄社区app, in addition to Maria Turner from the Atlantic County chapter of the National Stuttering Association.

These sentiments hit home for Tuckerton resident Maria Turner, leader of the Atlantic County chapter of the National Stuttering Association (NSA), as she reflected upon her own experiences as a person who stutters. 鈥淚 have been in speech therapy all of my life, since I was a young kid. I have also had a speech therapist who listened with their heart, and she helped me realize that it is OK to stutter,鈥 Turner said. 鈥淎nd because of my speech language pathologist, I have accepted that I am just as good as my peers who don鈥檛 stutter.鈥

鈥淚鈥檓 a kid from South Jersey,鈥 said Kidd-Gilchrist, closing out the evening鈥檚 discussion. 鈥淚 want to make this impact on a national level, but all of this starts at home. I am more than happy to be here and have conversations about how we can impact the next generation.鈥

This event was hosted by the Speech & Hearing Clinic and Master of Science in Communications Disorders program in the School of Health Sciences at 番茄社区app.

 

Reported by Eliza Hunt